Comparison of typical parental reactions to misbehavior

and proper use of time-out

This chart displays the elements of common parental responses to inappropriate behavior along side the elements of properly implemented time-out to remove a child from reinforcement of the unacceptable behavior and to allow time and opportunity for regaining appropriate control.  Essential to effective time-out is eliminating threats, cajoling, or other interactions with the child that are likely to reinforce the very behavior the parents wish to diminish.  To download this chart, go to the link at the bottom of the page.